這些事，不是一兩個家庭的悲劇，全社會普遍存在。誰不是含辛茹苦養大孩子，盼著晚年有個依靠？可時代變了，現在年輕人有年輕人的壓力，每天為了房貸、車貸和生活奔命，他們也有他們的難處，哪余多少力氣陪老人？

又有幾個兒女能做到陪伴在側、端飯遞藥？所以說，等自己真的老了，與其把希望寄托在孩子身上，不如早點清醒過來，靠自己。能照顧自己一天，是一天，不要給孩子添太多負擔，更不能以“孝順”名義，心安理得地要求他們放下一切。

還有一點想通了——長壽這件事，其實未必是福。曾見過隔壁89歲的趙奶奶，每天窩在床上，腦袋迷糊，靠護工伺候，兒女來了都是愁眉苦臉。活得久，可精神不自由，行動不自如，那不過是一具行走的軀殼，自己受累，也讓親人疲憊。

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看到老家那兩位老人現如今的狀況，我終于明白，活得明白一點，靠自己才是真本事。老了不要兒女養，長壽也不再是唯一追求，只愿此生能自在從容，無愧于心。